Not So Common Wedding Prep


That big day is right around the corner. Months and months of planning have gone into this moment to make sure that everything is perfect. From your dress, to the flowers, to the venue, all the details have been mapped out and thought about over and over. However, there's a list of not so obvious planning tips. Sometimes when you're wrapped up in all that planning, you can forget about yourself. Here are a few ways to prep to make sure you look and feel your best.

Happiness Is A Good Hair Day

They say that 90% of a good selfie is your hair. Your hair is important on your wedding day! On average, your hair grows at ¼ inch per month. This is important to consider when you are getting your trims and cuts leading up to the big day. Talk with your stylist to understand the desired length needed to get the look that you want. However, great hair also starts from the outside in. Hairfinity vitamins are packed with Niacin which promotes healthy blood circulation to the scalp as well as biotin, which supports existing hair growth and increases hair elasticity. Don’t forget about the guys! Men want to feel confident when they are standing at the end of the aisle as well. Hims is a company that offers hair loss options as such as Finasteride. It helps by blocking DHT, which is said to be the hormone derived from testosterone considered to be the main cause of hair loss. You're able to connect with doctors online and they send the prescription to your home without any embarrassing in person conversations.


That Wedding Glow

Many believe that food is the best medicine. A study in the Journal Evolution and Human Behaviour said that a diet full of vegetables and fruit could give you a glow that is better than the sun! Red and orange vegetables are able to give you the best sun kissed glow without the damaging effects of the sun. Sweet potatoes are an excellent vegetable choice when it comes to clearing up your complexion and radiating your skin. Papaya is fruit that is packed with enzymes that are great for your skin. Chympopapain helps to relieve inflammation in the skin and it can be applied topically to dissolve pore-clogged fats and cleanse the skin. Here are some papaya recipes that you should try when looking for a healthy, sweet treat!


Give Peace a Chance

With all the chaos that goes into planning a wedding, it's important to take a deep breath and remember that everything is going to be okay. If you are feeling stressed, tired, or overwhelmed, try downloading Insight Timer for your smart phone or tablet, an app that offers guided meditations for any kind of situation you're going through. From improving your mood, to helping you relax, you'll be well on the way to clearing your mind and ready to take on any kind of challenge that may come your way leading up to your wedding!


Any ways you can be kinder to yourself and future spouse, you should certainly try. There are so many things to keep track of and these are just few ideas that you might have forgotten about. Remember to take care of yourselves!


Dia & Isaac | Brazilian Room Wedding in Tilden Park Berkeley, CA

I've photographed at the Brazilian Room several times now and I've loved it each time. Besides being my ideal size venue and lots of gorgeous backdrops everywhere, the people within them are what makes them so great. 

Dia and Isaac are such sweet people and the relationship they had with their family touched me. The bride's father seeing his daughter in a wedding dress for the first time is always a lovely moment, but I particularly liked how Dia's father reacted (just scroll a bit down)!

Isaac writing the last bits of his vow moments before the ceremony is always a favorite, and the late November light was particularly beautiful for their ceremony. 

Venue: Brazilian Room in TIlden Park
Florals: Belle Flower
Dessert: Sweet Adeline
Videography: Slow Fall Cinema - Gusto Lopez

The Groom's Wedding Detail

The flowers.

The centerpieces.

That large, flat piece of wood with gold inlayed calligraphy that artfully tells people where to sit.

With so many different details to consider when planning a wedding, naturally there are a list of things that are rated high priority and things that are rated low priority. 

Sometimes there are things you don't realize are high priority until you wish you gave it a little bit more time! 

Although I haven't had the experience of wearing a tux or custom tailored suit, I can say for sure that wearing an outfit that fits me to a T instantly elevates me from the inside out. I feel luxurious. I feel fancy. My posture naturally straightens and I hold my head a little higher. 

I think a groom's outfit should make him feel the same way. After all, it's your wedding day - wouldn't you want to feel like royalty? ;) 

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Whether you're going for the classic look or forgoing a tie or bowtie for a more casual look, a well made suit that fits you perfectly in the shoulders, rests at just the right place on the wrist, and hits the top of your shoe will make you look like a million bucks. Guaranteed to make your guests say "Looking sharp!"

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With all the available (and affordable! especially compared to the price of wedding dresses!) options out there, I say invest in this small detail of the day for yourself. 

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To start, try checking out the suit and tuxedo rentals at The Black Tux- they even have an entire guide on groom styling and wedding tips.



Mary & Aaron | Pelican Inn Wedding at Muir Beach, CA

Mary and Aaron got married at the loveliest little inn! 

Small spaces and very low-light venues can be tricky to photograph, but I usually like the challenge. I thrive in it, actually. I find some of my best compositions come from smaller spaces, and I have always loved the ambiance of pure candlelight. 

Chelsea & Taylor | China Cabin Wedding in Tiburon, CA

What a luxurious and intimate wedding Chelsea and Taylor's wedding was! A small gathering of about 40 people witnessed their marriage at the beautiful China Cabin in Tiburon, with Chelsea and Taylor riding in a vintage Rolls Royce afterwards for private bride and groom photos. Their parents' private residence provided the perfect seaside backdrop for the gorgeous design work of Lisa Feldman Design.


Wedding Planning and Design: Lisa Feldman Design
Cake: Branching out cakes- 
Florist: Poppy's Petalworks- 
Makeup/Hair: Meaganne McCandess- 
DJ: Denon & Doyle-

Renee & Efrem | Saints Peter and Paul Church and Intercontinental Mark Hopkins wedding in San Francisco, CA

I truly enjoyed photographing Renee and Efrem's celebration. From the moment I stepped into their suite at the Intercontinental Mark Hopkins to witness Renee's excitement and vibrant smile all the way until the end of the night. With the help of A Monique Affair and all the wonderful vendors, this wedding day went by so smoothly. 

Wedding Planner: A Monique Affair //
Transportation: Hornblower Classic Cable Cars //
Reception: Intercontinental Mark Hopkins //
Wedding Cake: Jasmine Rae Cakes //
Hair & Makeup: Macelle Nguyen
Florist: Flower Outlet & Gifts //
DJ: DJ Dave Tutton